All Your Wedding Ring Questions Answered

You've thought about your engagement ring for years. You've tried on friends' rings, you've saved social media posts of stunning styles, compared different cuts, and decided how many carats you need. But what about your wedding ring? Wedding rings are the physical symbol of your vows to love, honor and cherish. And it's your wedding ring that actually says forever. You'll think of your wedding day every time you see it.

Too often, couples leave the choice of wedding rings to the last moment, limiting their choices. Don't let this be you! You want to make sure you love your wedding band as much as you love your partner. Let's take an in-depth look at wedding band trends and traditions, rules and romance, styles, and variations. Read on and you'll be a wedding band expert, ready to tackle this meaningful purchase and find the exact ring that's right for you.

Which finger does a wedding ring traditionally go on?

In most of Europe and America, a wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger of the left hand. This finger, also known as the ring finger, was thought to contain a legendary vein, called the vena amoris, that sent blood directly to the heart. The ancients believed that wearing a ring on this finger connected it directly to your heart. That's why wearing your wedding ring on this finger symbolizes the deep love and commitment shared between you and your partner. In some cultures, the wedding ring is traditionally worn on the ring finger of the right hand.

What is the symbolism behind wearing a wedding ring on the right hand?

In some cultures, particularly in Eastern Europe and parts of Asia, wearing a wedding ring on the right hand carries its own special meaning. The right hand is often associated with strength, action, and blessing. Placing the wedding ring on this hand symbolizes the active role both partners take in nurturing their love and supporting each other through life's challenges.

What is the symbolism behind the circular shape of a wedding ring?

The circular shape of a wedding ring carries deep symbolism. It represents eternity and the never-ending nature of love, with no beginning and no end. This shape has been chosen for centuries to signify the continuous commitment between two people in a marriage. The circle also symbolizes wholeness and unity, reflecting how two lives are joined together as one.

Does it matter in what order my rings are worn?

Traditionally, the wedding band goes on your finger first, followed by the engagement ring. That's so your wedding band is closest to your heart. During the wedding ceremony, your partner can slide on your wedding band on top of your engagement ring and you can switch the order of rings after the ceremony or you can wear your engagement ring on your other hand and move it on top of your wedding ring after the ceremony. But you can also choose to wear your rings in a different order if it works better for you. With ring stacks more popular today and people wearing multiple bands, you can wear your rings any way you want, in any order.

Should my wedding ring match my engagement ring?

Matching engagement ring and wedding band sets are available. But many people today like to mix ring styles to make their rings express their personality. You can mix designs, widths, metal colors, and gems to make your stack unique.

Should my wedding ring have diamonds or be plain gold?

Although plain metal rings are still popular, especially for men, today a growing number of wedding rings are set with diamonds to symbolize the strength and endurance of a couple's bond. More couples are choosing lab-grown diamond wedding rings instead of rings set with mined diamonds because they are more affordable, better quality and often are sustainably created, like Brilliant Carbon's lab diamonds grown using solar and wind power.

What can I do if my engagement ring doesn't sit flush with a wedding ring?

If your engagement ring doesn't fit next to the wedding ring you want, you have lots of options. A thin spacer ring can fill the space between them so they look good together. (There are even rings designed with a space in front that work well for this.) You can also choose a wedding band with a curve in it that makes space for the center stone of the engagement ring. These are called shadow bands or wrap rings. You can also wear your engagement ring and wedding band on different fingers.

Should I solder my rings together?

Some people don't like the way their engagement ring and wedding band twist on their fingers. One solution is to join the two rings into one. We don’t recommend this because having two separate rings gives you the most flexibility. Someday you might want to upgrade one of your rings or add a third ring to your stack. You also might want to wear your wedding band only when travelling or working out.

Can I wear more than one wedding ring?

Multiple wedding bands are becoming more and more popular. We love this look and you will too. You can also add rings for anniversaries, the birth of a child or just because.

Are there any royal wedding band traditions?

In England, the royals wear wedding rings made from local Welsh gold. Not all royals wear wedding rings and when they do they often express their own style. Prince Harry doesn’t wear a wedding ring. Prince Charles wears his stacked with a signet ring on his pinky finger. Prince Harry chose a platinum band.

Can I wear my wedding ring on any other finger?

Absolutely! If the traditional fourth finger of your left hand isn't comfortable for you, feel free to wear your wedding ring on any other finger that feels right. The most important thing is that you can comfortably and proudly display your commitment to your partner. Some people choose to wear their wedding ring on the right hand or even on a chain around their neck if it's more comfortable.

Is it acceptable to wear an engagement ring on a different finger from the wedding ring?

It is perfectly acceptable to wear your engagement ring on a different finger than your wedding ring, although many couples choose to wear them together on the same finger. Some women opt to wear their engagement ring on their right hand during the ceremony and then move it to the left hand after exchanging vows with their spouse. Ultimately, the decision is a personal one that reflects your unique style and preferences.

Are there any superstitions related to wearing a wedding ring on the "wrong" finger?

An old superstition says that wearing a non-committal ring on your left-hand ring finger is bad luck. Not the superstitious type? If the ring fits, wear it! While there are no specific superstitions about wearing a wedding ring on the "wrong" finger, some people still believe that removing the ring or placing it on an unconventional finger may lead to bad luck or marital discord.

Is it common for couples to wear matching wedding rings?

It is still quite common for couples to choose matching wedding rings to symbolize their unity and shared commitment. Matching rings can be simple and classic, like plain gold bands, or more elaborate designs that incorporate elements meaningful to both partners. By wearing coordinated rings, you create a lasting reminder of your love story and the special bond you share. But many couples instead choose rings that match their own personal styles. You should love the ring you wear every day.

Should both partners wear their wedding rings on the same finger?

In most traditions, everyone wears their wedding rings on the same finger: the fourth finger of the left hand. This universal practice signifies the unity and commitment shared by the couple, regardless of gender. The matching placement of the rings is a beautiful symbol of an equal partnership. Some couples may choose to follow different customs or wear their rings on alternate fingers based on personal preference, comfort, or cultural background. The most important aspect is that you and your partner feel comfortable with your chosen arrangement.

Are there any specific wedding ring traditions for same-sex couples?

Before individual states passed same-sex marriage, many LGBTQ+ couples would wear commitment rings, often on their right hand. But since the Supreme Court ruled same-sex marriage is a constitutional right, most LGBTQ+ couples choose the traditional ring finger for their wedding rings. Same-sex couples most often wear their wedding rings on the fourth finger of the left hand to symbolize their love and commitment. Some couples opt for matching rings, while others select unique designs that hold personal significance. Ultimately, the decision is a reflection of each couple's individual preferences and values.

 

What is the significance of wearing a wedding ring in a religious ceremony?

In many religions, the exchange and wearing of wedding rings hold deep spiritual significance. The circular shape of the ring represents eternity and the unending nature of love. In Christian weddings, the ring serves as a symbol of the couple's covenant with God and their promise to honor their marriage vows. Jewish ceremonies often include the blessing "Behold, you are consecrated unto me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel," acknowledging the religious importance of the rings.

Are there any alternative finger options for people with hand injuries or disabilities?

If you have a hand injury or disability that prevents you from wearing a traditional wedding ring on your preferred finger, you can wear it another way. For example, you can wear the ring on another finger. You can wear a ring with a flexible or adjustable band that fits a wider range of finger shapes and sizes. You can also opt to wear your wedding ring on a necklace close to your heart. The most important thing is finding a solution that allows you to proudly display your commitment.

Can I wear my wedding ring on a different finger if I have a skin condition or allergy?

If you have a skin condition like eczema or a metal allergy, wearing your wedding ring on an alternative finger may be more comfortable and safer for your skin. Consider choosing a hypoallergenic material like platinum or palladium to minimize any adverse reactions. Your comfort and well-being should always come first when deciding how to wear your wedding ring.

Can I wear my wedding ring on a chain around my neck if it doesn't fit on any finger?

Yes, wearing your wedding ring on a chain around your neck is a lovely alternative if none of your fingers can accommodate the ring comfortably. This option allows you to always keep your symbol of love and commitment close to your heart. Choose a sturdy chain that complements the design of your ring, ensuring it stays secure throughout the day.

Can I wear my wedding ring on a different finger if it's more comfortable during certain activities?

If certain activities, like sports or manual labor, make wearing your wedding ring uncomfortable on its traditional finger, feel free to switch it to another finger that feels better. You can also safely store your wedding ring during activities that can damage your ring or compromise your safety, like using power tools, lifting weights, or using abrasives or chemicals. The most important thing is that you can comfortably and safely participate in these activities while still honoring your commitment to your partner.

What is the etiquette for removing a wedding ring during activities like sports or work?

When engaging in activities that could damage your wedding ring or pose safety risks, it's perfectly acceptable to remove it temporarily. Just make sure to store your ring in a safe and secure place.

Can I wear my engagement and wedding rings on separate hands?

While many people who wear both rings choose to wear their engagement and wedding rings together on the same finger, there's no strict rule that dictates this arrangement. Some people enjoy the sparkle of their engagement ring on their right hand while reserving the left for their wedding band. Ultimately, your decision should reflect what feels most comfortable and meaningful to you.

 

Is it acceptable to wear multiple rings, including the wedding ring, on one hand?

Absolutely! Wearing multiple rings on one hand can be a stylish and meaningful way to express yourself. Many people choose to stack their engagement ring, wedding band, and perhaps even an anniversary or promise ring on the same finger. The key is to ensure that your rings are comfortable together and do not damage each other when worn together.

What if my wedding ring doesn't fit me anymore?

If your wedding ring doesn't fit comfortably on the traditional fourth finger of your left hand, consider trying it on different fingers or resizing it with the help of a jeweler. Most rings can be adjusted up to two sizes without compromising their structural integrity. However, if you experience significant swelling or changes in finger size over time, wearing the ring on an alternative finger may be more practical.

Can I wear my wedding ring on a different finger during pregnancy if my fingers swell?

Of course! Pregnancy-related swelling often affects the hands and fingers, making it uncomfortable to wear rings in their usual positions. If this happens to you, feel free to move your wedding ring to an alternative finger where it fits more comfortably or store your ring someplace safe until it fits again.

Do couples who have civil unions follow the same traditions for wearing wedding rings?

Couples who enter into civil unions often follow similar traditions when it comes to wearing wedding rings. These rings symbolize the couple's commitment and love for each other, just as they do in traditional marriages. The choice of ring style might vary from classic bands to more contemporary designs, but the act of exchanging and wearing these rings is a significant part of the ceremony. It's a beautiful way for couples to publicly express their devotion, regardless of whether the union is recognized through a religious ceremony or a civil one.

Are there any specific traditions for wearing wedding rings during the ceremony itself?

During the wedding ceremony, there are a few traditions that many couples choose to follow. In a religious ceremony, rings are often blessed by their officiant before they are exchanged. If you have a traditional wedding party, the best man often has the responsibility of holding onto the rings until it's time for them to be placed on the fingers of the couple. In a traditional ceremony, the groom usually places the ring on the bride's finger first, followed by the bride placing the ring on the groom's finger. This act symbolizes their never-ending love and commitment to each other. In modern ceremonies, you can choose to follow these traditions or create your own.

Are there any rules for caring for and maintaining a wedding ring worn daily?

Caring for your wedding ring to keep it looking beautiful through years of daily wear is essential. Regular cleaning with mild soap and a soft brush helps maintain its shine. It's also recommended to have your ring checked by a jeweler annually for any signs of wear or loose stones. Removing the ring during activities that might cause damage, such as gardening or weightlifting, can prevent scratches and other harm. These simple steps ensure that your wedding ring remains a radiant symbol of your love and commitment.

Are there any rules or etiquette for upgrading or changing a wedding ring after years of marriage?

There aren't any strict rules when it comes to upgrading or changing your wedding ring. It's a personal decision that might be influenced by various factors, such as changes in style preferences, financial situation, or life milestones. Some couples choose to upgrade their rings on significant anniversaries, while others may simply want a fresh design. The most important aspect is that the decision reflects the ongoing commitment and love between you and your partner.

What is the significance of double-ring ceremonies when it comes to wearing wedding rings?

In a double-ring ceremony, both partners wear wedding rings, symbolizing their mutual commitment and equal partnership. This practice has become increasingly popular as it visually represents the balance and unity in a marriage. The exchange of rings during the ceremony is not just a symbolic act but also a public declaration of love and devotion.

Are there any superstitions related to losing or misplacing a wedding ring?

Losing or misplacing a wedding ring can be distressing, and there are indeed various superstitions surrounding this event. Some believe it signifies an impending rift in the marriage, while others think it's a sign of good luck, symbolizing freedom from past limitations. However, it's essential to remember that these are just superstitions, and the strength of a relationship is not defined by material objects.